Friday, April 04, 2008

BaBy, BaBy, BaBy

My biological clock is ticking very fast now, and I know that I'm not that young anymore which I can think of when to have baby.......

Actually, middle of last year, everyone esp from my family - mom, bro, and sis, has been keep asking me to consider when I plan to have a BaBy GIRL....yes, a baby girl. Reason: because I still don't have baby girl yet, and they all think that I should have a baby girl cause girl more filial, etc....which I know it is true (in reality).

And, Iz nanny too. Keep telling me that I need to have a baby girl, cause Iz is so cute and good boy, so, she said it is a pity if I don't have to have another one when I told her, I'm not planning to have baby anymore. She even want to book me for my next baby, and give me assurance that she will babysit my baby.....ha,ha..so nice of her.

Anyone ask me to have one, I won't so bother about it. I will just inform them nicely saying "I think I'm happy with 2 lovely princes and not to plan to have anymore".....Till early of this year, one night, suddenly hubby ask me

Hubby: "Are you sure you don't want to have anymore baby"?
Me: "Sure, no more. Scare lar" Why?
Hubby: You sure?! Cause you always want to have baby girl ler.....no regret?
Me: Ha,ha....no regret, even tho I really want to have baby girl, but, how sure you, that I will pregnant with baby girl. If boy come out, how?
Hubby: yalor hor....
Me: Taking care of 2 boys is not easy ler....blah,blah..blah...

And, he just keep quiet liao.....and he keep 'asking' me for several night, and some more, try to influence or hint me to have another baby.

I just feel miserable......should I go for another baby or just firm on my decision of stopping at 2? Actually, my wish is to have 3 kids - 2 boys and 1 girl, and it seem so coincident, at the moment, I already have 2 boys with GOD blessing.

While I keep thinking about it, my biological clock keep ticking away. It is easy to plan for baby, but, raising a kid is really a demanding job which at the moment, I don't think I'm a good mommy and capable of raising 3 kids....he,he...

10 comments:

chanelwong said...

it is a hard decision to make...both emotionally, phyically and financially...

Pray and ask God...

mybabybay said...

Sure you don't want a gal, they can be very sweet. :P How old are you? Opps...secretly email me the answer.

Health Freak Mommy said...

Your boy is sooooo cute here. I know I know, real hard decision. Pray to God for a decision. If it's God's will that you shd have another child, you will surely have it, just like in my case.

Ling That's Me said...

discuss with ur hubby. write out the why-you-want and why-you-dont-want..

a child is Heaven's gift, if it's yours, it's yours :)

Wen said...

if u have smooth delivery for the last two pregnancies and not much of prob, go for it la. money think later, sure got when u need it..
its a blessing to have children. some ppl dont even hv any...

good luck making ur decision.
psst..how old r u..?

Mommy said...

hi jo! i agree totally that having a baby is easy, but the caring part is the problem one. i remember you telling me that you were very sure two is enough for you, so it is nice to hear that you are considering another one now. i think it's very natural for you to want a baby girl, and i wish only the best for you.

btw, i have a tag for you, but take your time ok. cheers

-pek imm

Mummy to QiQi said...

my hubby cannot live without his girl. After dr confirm the twins are boys, he love her and hug her even MORE...i can feel what your hb is feeling at the moment (especially when he sees other men manja their girl).

Whatever is your decision, Jo, I will always support you.

MamaJo said...

Chanelwong: I know and I will...thanks!!

HealthFreakMommy: Are you planning to have 4th baby boy??

Lingthat'sme: Ha,ha...hubby let me decide..that's why I have to crack my head...

Wen: Frankly speaking, I have smooth pregancies for both but not good outcome....both of them is a 'pressure baby'.....that's why I a bit relunctant to have another one....me 'melangkah' into '30+' liao

Mommy: Yalor....I still think 2 is enough till today...but, then, I really also craving to have a baby girl..till today, shopping is boring cause I can't buy anything for girl girl :)

Mummytoqiqi: Thanks, Chinnee....I guess now also, my hubby so love both his boys....he really so sayang them one...

Wai Wai said...

Dear mama jo, I have 2 girls... and my biological clock is ticking too.... actually 2 is really too little, but like you I dreaded the taking care moments especially at night time and when they are sick.... so when people ask or encourage me to go for no 3, i will politely tell them, "we will not be planning for no 3 but if God decides to bless us with another one, we will gladly obey"

MamaJo said...

Hi Wai Wai, thanks for dropping by....it is true that if GOD bless, then automatic 3rd will pop out hor...