Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Arrogant or Idiot Neighbour??!

This might be a very long and boring story for you all. So, if you do have time, please do read it while snippy your cup of favourite coffee/tea.

First of all, I really don’t wish to write this on my loving blog, but, this neighbour is really driving me nut with their little nonsense action daily. Let call them Leong Family.

It all started when they move it (a year plus), doing their big show off renovation. And, due to their selfish & arrogant attitude, one day, around 6 months back last year, they putting their flower pot in the middle of our cross line garden suddenly(In between of our little garden but outside the car porch, without apparent reason). To make story short, Leong started sent email to Dadi later to apologies and saying the main reason they put the flower pot is because he doesn’t want my hubby to park the car there!!! For me, it is really a nonsense and ridiculous. We are staying in a neighboring house. We never block their access and every neighbour is doing the same, as you know, when you are staying in terrace house, parking is an issue with all those house cramped and build close to each other(thanks to the developer). And, for this idiot Leong, what make me really angry is that his reason is because my hubby’s car is damaging his ‘alfafae’ grass and he is upset!! I mean, HALLO, since you plant your grass outside your car porch, anyone can park there and you should expect it as the land/property outside the car porch is belong to Maljis Perbandaran and not us.

And, he indeed did apologies about it and says in future, no matter what, he will talk to us directly instead of putting sign or whatsoever this idiot Leong will do.

The mess of the cement

Me and Dadi thought that from that day onward, everything should be peaceful again as usual before they MOVE into this neighborhood. Who know, they did it again!!! This time, on Monday, when Dadi reached home around 6pm, Dadi saw that our car porch floor is so dirty with cement scatter around and our fish tank is full of cement as well. Not only that, our plant is not spare of as well(And I really hate rennovate as Jona is allergic to cement and being hospitalise before). You know what they did??!!! They go and seal up the fence with a brick on our ‘sharing’ fence!! On their side, they did everything nicely already and left our side here with dirty floor, ugly wall, etc…..You tell me, who is not upset with all of these nonsense and stupid act by inconsiderate or retarded neighbour after you are tired with whole day work!!!
Ugly wall

Yesterday, when we try to talk nicely to Leong family, you know what the wife says?? She really drive me nut with the way she talk and act. I really feel like to slap her and tell her to F*CK off and move to isolated village where she can do whatever she wants.

Dadi: What happen yesterday? Why you all build the wall and make our side here so ugly and dirty?
Stupid woman (in angry tone): If you want to patch and seal your wall nicely….do it yourself and pay yourself lar
Dadi: We really don’t care what you want to do with the wall, but, now, you are cross on our side here and it is a sharing fence, ok? By the way, shouldn’t you notify us earlier too? As we can clear our stuff off, rather than now, you are dirtying our place.
Stupid woman: Why should I inform you of whatever renovation I did? Who are you? Why should I tell you?
Dadi: As a neighbour, we have the right that you inform us about sealing the wall and get our approval first before you start all these mess. As you are sealing the ‘sharing’ fence, and, also since your brick is crossing over our line, don’t we as the owner demand an explanation and a solution from you? By legal right, as long as you cross over people property, you should consult and talk and propose to us first if you want to seal the wall up. And, if we agree, we can share paying the cost. And, you shouldn’t do all these nonsense without consult us at all! By the way, your hubby did apologies before and says in future, anything, he will talk nicely to us first in his email.
Stupid woman: What email? What talk? I don’t even know anything about it at all!!
Their guava tree purposely plant exactly at the border line and the branches or leaf keep falling

Imagine this kind of neighbour. You tell me, whether I should piss off with them or not? Since they move into this neighbourhood, our family really has no peace of mind at all. Every tiny miny day, they would go and did some irritating action that really tests my patience.
Their own unused roof tiles, they put at my backdoor neigbour area and not on their own side

And, during their show off renovation, they even build their extension roof till my side here. Now, I’m just wondering, should I take any legal action on them? I try to talk to them, husband and wife about this issue, but, they always brush me off angrily. I really want to teach them some good manner lesson which I think their families never teach them before. When you are cross over people property, to prevent people from suing you, by right, they should be nice to me. And, not acting like this. What do you think?

Over my property!!!

My colleague told me, that I can go file complain at Majlis Perbandaran, and their officer will come and check and issue reminder to this neighbour and give them certain period of time to remove it……Is it a good lesson to this kind of neighbour?


chanelwong said...

terrible....mess up everything..

Mummy to QiQi said...

so irritating. so hard to live with this kind of people hor...poor u!! sigh.....after all we have to pay so much for our house, not say can move out anytime we want :(

mybabybay said...

I will surely fuzed like you. I will complain to MP. Let MP demolished their structure. Hey if they didn't get approval from MP, they cannot make any structure.

I cannot wait for MP to take a hammer and break the structure..muhahahaha

Wen said...

i will definitely complain to MP!! stupid neighbour. i hate it esp the close up fence. i have never seen neighbour not patching up on the other side. all this while, it should be done that way. usually ppl plaster the other side as well and paint it too! go for the complaint. i support u!

Health Freak Mommy said...

Aiyoh, that lady is soooo damn lcly. Yup, go and complain to the Council!

Harley Square said...

Hey Josephine, I doubt MP will take action,if yes will take ages. But u can try.

MamaJo said...

Chanelwong: Haha...this is just the beginning...and my 6 sense told me, there will be another mess!!

MummytoQiQi: Problem is, I really don't understand why people need to be so selfish and arrogant as neighbour

Mybabybay: Hehe...thanks for your comfort word!! It really cheer my day ler

Wen: Thanks for your support. I will definitely go complain if they even make a funny stupid things again.....

HealthFreakMommy: You know what, I think she is over jealous with me....Since day 1 she move in, she don't want smile with me even I make first move to talk to her.....When people over jealous with you, they will try to make nonsense thing...hahaha...that's the best reason you agree with me?

HarleySquare: I do agree, but, like you say, no harm try when the flames still burning inside me....hehe....complain better than I regret lor....hihi..some more it is not my house will be demolish, it is their, kahkah ~ evil laugh!!!

Wai Wai said...

Aiyoh... good and tolerate neighbors are really so important.....we also got a "not so considerate neighbor" back in my dad's house.....looks like world war 3 wor... keep your cool ok..

Lybil said...

We just bought a house in M'sia and our neighbour is as retarded as yours. They are so rich to tear down the whole corner house and did a huge renovation, ok fine, non of my business.. but guess what? They dig and dig and until there's a big whole in one of our bedroom! Luckily nobody staying in the house yet. Our shared wall is like yours too! All the bricks and unwanted newspapers was thrown at our side When we asked about it, the wife (normally is the woman) shouted back.. said that her interior designer would not make such mistake and warned us that she knew many 'powerful' people out there if we try to complaint!!! I really have not seen such a rude and childish woman before!(not until I hear your story, another retarded woman!)


MamaJo said...

Waiwai: True, nowadays, good and compromise neigbours hard to find....I told myself, waste my energy to bother this kind of neighbour, just treat them as 'invisible' day, they will get their own revenge from others :P

Lybil: Wow...yours one dare to 'threaten' you??!!! Honestly I really respect this kind of people lor...when they make mistakes, they won't admit it, instead try to accuse us to create trouble with them.......I just wonder whether they are able to sleep well at night or not without having nightmare, hehe....